There was a
stabbing at our high school a few weeks ago. This is bad…because someone got stabbed.
But it's also bad because we thought the school seemed decent based on state statistics and other people living in the town with similar values to ours sending their kids there. In what kind of environment do conflicts reach the point of stabbing and bringing knives to school?
I remember no stabbings at my school, which was terrible, in terms of dubious metrics like test scores, but also actual student outcomes and experiences. Illinois is generally considered one of the worst states in the US for education, and my school was nowhere near the top of that very humble hill.
Although: some cursory searching reveals that a student did shoot another student, and there was a race riot there in years since my matriculation. Regardless, I feel we can do better than a stabbing school.
However, is it really a stabbing school? A single stabbing can happen anywhere, even the finest prep school in Weston or Beacon Hill or something.
I'm irritated that I have to find out because it greatly complicates our lives. There is quite a bit of home improving to do on our home, but some it may not be worth doing if we have to move. And moving famously destabilizes kids.
Or, if we have to go to private school, I have go back to working at a for-profit company, and at a large and probably terrible one, to boot.
The other source of irritation is that I don't know how to research high schools well. I'm not sure anyone does.
State-provided test scores don't tell me anything unless they're extremely bad. And I have no idea how school ranking sites come up with their numbers. Probably the best way to figure this out is to know a bunch of high school students, but I don't know any.
Well, when I don't know how to do something well, sometimes I start by doing it badly in hopes that will give me clues. So, I went to niche.com, which has mysterious rankings, but also comments from students.
Unfortunately, this is a lot like looking at Yelp comments, which are sometimes helpful if you only need to hear about one credible bad experience to eliminate a choice, but this isn't one of those situations.
There is a well-written, revealing comment here and there, but most of them are like this:
The school has newly built science labs with modern technology and equipments. it also has a football field
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The air conditioning is horrible honestly. Teachers/students bring in their own fan that eventually bloes hot hair after a couple of weeks .
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The only thing I really like about this school is the diversity among the students. Other than that, this school makes it very hard to learn in. The environment is so nonchalant, and no one thinks about the future. No one in this school is mature enough to relate to.
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Bulling is not the issue at medford school
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I don't really go and buy lunch from school but on certain days i might buy myself some lunch that i usually like, like hamburgers, grilled cheese and chicken sandwich.
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The school nurse is awful. One time a boy was throwing up and brought his throw up to the nurse and they didn't send him home. They didn't send another boy home with pink eye too. But when it comes to safety the school it is very good.
One thing I did get out of this is that a lot of the students think that teacher quality is wildly variable, so it wasn't for nothing.
It now occurs to me that I could find out about how violent the cultures at various schools are by finding crime statistics by school. That's probably not that easy, however.
I started looking at other schools, too. The private schools seem inappropriately high-pressure and are also all $40-60K/year. Some of the high-ranking public schools seem to not have great student-teacher ratios, which may mean the burden of learning is all on the student and their family, though I could be wrong.